Organising a DIY funeral

Yes, you can organise a funeral yourself — it’s legal in many countries (including the UK, US, Canada, Australia, and others), though the specific requirements vary depending on local laws. This is often called a DIY funeral or a family-led funeral.

Here’s a step-by-step overview of what’s typically involved:

✅ 1. Check the legal requirements

• Register the death with the relevant authority (e.g., the local registry office).

• Obtain a death certificate and, where needed, a burial or cremation permit.

• You don't need a funeral director by law, but you must follow rules around body care, transport, and disposition.

✅ 2. Care for the body

• You can care for the body at home in many jurisdictions, provided it's kept cool.

• Some areas may require you to use a mortuary if the person died from certain causes.

• You’ll need to arrange transport, especially if you're moving the body to a cemetery or crematorium — some places allow you to use your own vehicle, others may not.

✅ 3. Choose the type of funeral

• Burial, cremation, green/natural burial, or direct cremation (no service).

• You can hold a memorial at home, outdoors, a community hall, or a religious site.

• Decide who will officiate — it can be a friend, family member, celebrant, or clergy.

✅ 4. Arrange the logistics

• Venue: Public or private space (with permission).

• Cemetery or crematorium: Book in advance; may have restrictions or paperwork.

• Transport: Vehicle to move the body, if not using a funeral home.

• Coffin/casket: Buy online, build one, or use an eco-coffin. It must meet local guidelines.

✅ 5. Hold the ceremony (if desired)

• Include music, readings, personal tributes, or religious rites.

• Involve others to help carry the coffin, speak, or perform rituals.

✅ 6. Disposition and paperwork

• Crematorium or burial site will usually issue final documentation.

• Return certified documents to authorities if needed for probate or legal purposes.

🧭 Helpful Tips:

• Start early: It takes time to navigate permits and paperwork.

• Get support: Even if you don’t use a funeral director, you can consult a death doula or funeral guide.

• Respect local laws: Especially around body storage, transport, and interment.